Yesterday I was talking on the phone with one of the families who lost their son in that tragic fire training incident in Kilgore, TX.  Part of my job is to help them get on a road of recovery and healing and tohelp them find a ‘ new normal’ in their lives.   There are many facets to this, I will save for a different post, but we happened to be talking about what helped her during those hours and days after her son’s death.   She simply said, ‘a book of …