4th of July Goodness

We had a super fun 4th with our friends this year.  Since Catherine was little we have gone to our small town’s parade but this year we slept in and then hightailed it to their house for some swimming, barbecue and sparklers.  The swimming ended up being a bust because of our notorious afternoon thunderstorms.  This time it was all thunder and no rain, so we were pretty bummed that we only got to swim for about 15 minutes.  However, we made due and lounged around the house where the girls played until there was food and then played some more until there were sparklers.  You can’t beat a holiday afternoon like this one!

Sunday on the Down Low

I am trying to get reacquainted with what a do-nothing day.  No schedules.  No meetings.  No appointments. No need to show up anywhere or do anything.  John was at work and so it was just Catherine and I laying around while storms rolled in and out.  I have to tell you that I couldn’t take  it for too long, so we decided to visit the bookstore where I picked up a cute pop-up book craft kit for Catherine and a new book and a couple of magazines for me.

 

 

Please don’t mind the mess on my back porch.  We had to move everything under the porch because of the scorching heat last week and somehow the mess has just piled up.   I was happy though to capture a quick photo of the rain…the glorious rain!  (Dear Jesus, please send some of this rain to Colorado!)

 

Speaking of reading new books…I am teaching Catherine how to read using this highly recommended, completely simple book.  Catherine is doing amazingly well learning how to sound out words and memorizing sight words.  If you are teaching your child to read, I definitely would recommend this book.

Here are just a few more scenes from our day of rest and rain:


And what’s a rainy day without getting to jump in the puddles?

 

 

Happy Sunday!  And Happy July!!

Blog & Stuff

Hey world out there!  Is anyone still out there?  I am working on trying to make a comeback to the blog but in all honesty, I am not sure how many readers I still have since I have been out of the loop for so long.  My life has gotten so busy that something has had to give and it looks like my blog is one of those things.  I hate that because my memory seems to be shot lately and I don’t want precious memories be forever lost.  Blogging has been the only consistent way of memory keeping for me over the last few years.  I tried doing Project Life but even that got to be too overwhelming once April hit.  I feel pretty torn about the blog.  There are some days I am ready to give it up and shut it down and then are days like today where I am not ready to do that.  Anyway, all of that was to say that I want to see if there is anyone still out there even reading my ramblings.

I am recovering from the 3rd Annual Texas Fallen Heroes Memorial Ride & Cook-Off.  I can’t believe that this was only the 3rd event.  I feel like this was the 10th!  It was a rough one to plan on this go-round.  I had one issue after another come up from the moment we started planning it until the night of the event and we were packing it up.  I honestly was ready to call it quits back in February but the sweet faces of the Staley family kept me going.  They were the family we were honoring this year on behalf of their son Gary Staley.   They had been part of the planning process from day 1 and I just couldn’t imagine breaking their hearts because I had given up.

The event went well for the most part.  I am still struggling with several big issues that came up and I feel a bit battered from this year’s experience.  Everyone and their mother are trying to convince me to have it again next year but I am not sure that I have it in me.  While it makes me smile to see these photos, I didn’t leave the event with the feeling of excitement about planning next year’s event.  The previous 2 years, while extremely difficult, I felt ready to get back up on the horse to start planning for the next year.  This year, I was happy to get it over with and felt a sense of relief.  It’s going to take a lot of convincing and a pretty big talk with my board of directors in order for year 4 to happen.  I open to suggestions and debate but a lot will need to change in order for the 4th to happen.  I have to say though, thank the Lord for photographers that can remind me of all of the good that happened!  Maybe in a month I will be ready to hop back on the planning wagon.

Photos taken by Sheri Baldwin of Shots by Sheri

 

I didn’t mean to take a blog break but it looks like that is just what I did.  I can’t even begin to tell you how crazy, busy this June has been.  I am ready to come up for some air but I can’t do that until after next weekend.  My posts will probably be few and far between while we finish getting ready for the Memorial Ride & Cook-Off and then after that, I hope I can get back to a regular blog schedule.

Until then, here is a bucket list of what we have been up to:

  • I’m teaching Catherine how to read and she is picking it up quickly.  I am using a highly recommended and yet incredibly simple system that I will share at another time
  • We signed Catherine up for homeschool co-op
  • We hosted our first annual Texas Fallen Heroes Family Retreat in New Braunfels.  It was a blast!
  • The next weekend I responded to a wildland firefighter fatality.  That was a whole new learning experience.
  • The last week we have been busy, busy trying to get ready for Memorial Ride & Cook-Off.  I am pretty sure that this will be the last year.  I am burnt out with planning it and then trying to pull it off with very little help.

That’s it for now!

Memorial Day and Catherine

In 2010 a firefighter at John’s station suddenly passed away.  I went to the funeral home and cemetery to take photos because they had brought the big airport firetrucks down the funeral home to show a fire department presence.  While I was there, I visited the gravesites of several other firefighters that were buried in that cemetery.  This cemetery is huge and I was driving through trying to locate a particular grave, I came across the military burial area.  I was immediately struck by one particular grave that was covered in decorations, flowers and flags.  I immediately stopped the car to see who this special person was.  You can read more about his story here.    Since then I have visited his grave during Memorial Day weekend, and then there was a few other times that I had to stop by that particular funeral home for something else and I would stop by.  Each time his grave was lovingly tended to and decorated.  I could only imagine how much his family loved him and missed him.

This year, I decided to take Catherine with me to place a flag on his grave.  Catherine is extremely sensitive to people and animals that suffer from injuries or illness and to death.  John and I have protected her from dealing with death topics which was extremely hard when John’s mother died and then when our dog Chief died.  I believe that now she is at a much better age to start talking to her about death, so I figured taking her to place the flag would be a good first step into starting to understand that topic.  When we pulled into the cemetery(which we have driven by hundreds of times), she immediately started asking questions.  She asks such deeply intellectual questions that I had a hard, hard time trying to answer them.  I knew that placing that flag was going to be a lot harder to do than I had originally thought but it was something we needed to do.

As we pulled up to the military section I noticed that there were many families that were there.  The cemetery had decided to put together a memorial service and we just happened upon the end of the service.  As we walked closer to that soldiers grave, I saw that his family was there…lots and lots of them.  I was happy that I could finally see this family and put faces behind this soldier’s grave.  Catherine and I walked up, hand in hand, carrying our little flag and the mother of the soldier looked at us with a slight smile on her face.  I told her that I visited her son’s grave every year and that this year we wanted to place a flag.  She was taken aback by the fact a stranger would visit her son’s grave and just loved that we wanted to place a flag.  Catherine bent over and placed it in the long line of other flags.  They commented on how cute and sweet she was to do this.  We thanked the family for his sacrifice and allowing us to honor him and walked away.  As we stepped away, Catherine asked how he died.  I told her that he was protecting us from bad guys and that the bad guys hurt him so badly that he ended up dying.  She immediately stopped, turned back to look at the family and then said, ‘that makes me so mad and so sad.’  It was all I could do to keep from tearing up.

Immediately after I explained what happened to that soldier, it was like something clicked in her little head.  She wanted to know who each person was that was buried there.  She would then ask if that person protected us.  She then noticed that there were lots of flags left over from the memorial service and asked if she could put them on other stones.  How could I say no?

Catherine has such a tender heart and I know that this visit made her think.  She asked lots and lots of questions after we left.  I am glad that I have opened this dialogue with her and I hope that we can make this a ‘tradition’ every Memorial Day to help keep the conversation going as she grows older.  She needs to know that there are people out there that are willing to sacrifice their lives to protect us and keep us safe.  I want her to know that this day is more than just pool parties and barbecues…that there is a face and a name behind those stones.  It was a tough and yet meaningful day.

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