February 7, 2008
Referral Day! 14
The weekend before referral day (Monday Feb 4) went by
pretty quickly. I tried not to think about Monday because soon as I
started to focus on us getting the call I could feel my heart rate start to
rise. I was so excited but I didn’t want the weekend to drag by because I
was thinking about it every second of the day. In hindsight, I pretty
much was but we had a busy weekend so the time actually flew by for me.
John had to work on Superbowl Sunday, and he said it was a tortuously long day
for him. Luckily my best friends managed to keep me entertained.
On Monday we were both so anxious. The time just dragged on and we China
thought the call would never come. I kept wondering if would come in the
late afternoon and we would have to wait until Tuesday. I wondered if DHL
got lost. I wondered if our agency would forget to call us. I was
being completely paranoid. The other mother that we will be traveling
with to
was also anxious. We both kept tag-teaming our agency with emails.
Our coordinator would email back pretty quickly. When I sent the last
email, she didn’t respond so I started to wonder if DHL finally made it.
About 45 minutes the call came in and John and I made a mad dash for the phone
and the camera! Caller ID is the best thing ever! I answered the
phone and Kim said that we had a daughter! I told her we were coming to
the agency right away and she told me drive slowly.
We drove to the agency and the whole time we were just giddy with
excitement. I couldn’t wait to see what she looked like and how old she
was and where she was from! We almost thought we were going to get pulled
over by the police at one point because we were speeding just a wee bit.
We made it to the agency safely though.
When we went into the office, our referral papers were on the counter with her
pictures upside down. I couldn’t stop staring at them and I spaced out
for a second but Kim said to go ahead and look at the pictures. I counted
to three and flipped them over and all I saw was her hair! I started
yaying and jumping up and down! I just could not get over how cute she
was and how much hair she had on that little head. I was so, so
happy. John kept staring at her and didn’t say too much. He was in
shock I think.
After we got back home and made our rounds of phone calls and emails and visited with my Rebecca, we went to go visit Heidi and her family. We then went out for a celebratory dinner with Lisa & Ken and Elisa & Scott at the Lucky 8 Chinese Restaurant. How appropriate huh? All of these people have been walking this long road with us and it felt so good to just celebrate with them. Lisa (now known as Auntie L) and Ken brought us roses and a balloon. It was just so sweet.
We finished the evening off with a glass of wine called Electra from Quady Winery in California. I like it much better than champagne!
Referral Day was a good day!
















Feb 07, 2008 @ 13:01:11
Congrats to both of you and your journey to your forever family…Your little one is so cute… Will be following your trip and wishing only happiness to you. My daughter is lid 02/17/06 and we are so hoping for things to move along. You are in our prayers….Linda
Feb 07, 2008 @ 14:00:56
WOW!!!!!!! Finally, so many congrats, I’ve been following (lurking) your blog for a long time and I so happy you finally get to see her little face, by the way I just saw the pics and she is so freaking cute, the hair!!! LOL adorable
Feb 07, 2008 @ 14:34:54
Thanks for letting us have a look into a very special day. One you will surely remember forever. Congrats again!
Feb 07, 2008 @ 15:36:14
Congrats again, mama and baba!
Feb 07, 2008 @ 16:05:45
Thanks for sharing that. I LOVE seeing your joy and am so happy your dream is coming true!
Feb 07, 2008 @ 16:58:49
Thanks for posting this! I’ve been wondering what referral day is like and constantly torturing Rob with comments like “I think we need to work from home on the day we get the call” and “I think we need to set up a video area for the call”. I have no clue what it will be like, but I feel like I should prepare ‘cuz there’s only like 4 months left!
Congrats again! We’ll be living vicariously!
Jennifer
Feb 07, 2008 @ 18:23:19
Now THAT is a PERFECT day…perfect!!
Feb 07, 2008 @ 19:26:41
Love hearing all about it…what a wonderful day referral day is. Looks like you celebrated in style!
Daddy, keep your eyes on the road LOL
Feb 07, 2008 @ 21:48:10
IT JUST DOESN’T GET ANY BETTER THAN THAT,DOES IT……..OH IT IS JUST AN AMAZING FEELING…ONE CAN NOT EVEN PUT INTO WORD………BIGGEST OF HUGS AND ENJOY THE NEXT AMAZING DAYS AHEAD..IT SURE IS A WHIRL WIND!!!!!!!!!!!!
CONGRATS.AGAIN,SHE IS ADORABLE!!
Feb 08, 2008 @ 07:36:44
Congrats what a great way to start Chinese New Year.
Beverly
Feb 08, 2008 @ 08:00:51
I loved seeing your pics of the big day. I was re-living that joy with you. Can not wait for that really joyful big day when you are with Catherine.
Love Lisa F
Feb 08, 2008 @ 09:48:11
such fantasic news
yeah!!!!
Feb 08, 2008 @ 19:22:40
That sounds like a perfect day. Congratulations…. I can’t wait to see you travel for that little sweet girl..
Feb 10, 2008 @ 14:42:47
So very exciting! You are the only person I know from our agency!!! I loved seeing your caller ID and the office! Who was the woman you were photographed with? Was that Kim???
Congratulations again… you Catherine is just beautiful!!